I am new to this, but I could use some words of encouragement. My fiance and I were set to get married in about 3 months when all of a sudden (well, all of a sudden to me) he called everything off last month. Not only the wedding, but our 5 year relationship as well. I've moved out and he has said that he just wants to live the single life. He says he doesn't feel like he's the relationship type of guy. There were no signs that this was coming. He claims he's been unhappy for a couple years now, and thought that proposing would make this better. He's younger, only 22 where I'm 24, and I have friends that are telling me this could just be cold feet--but in the mean time, whatever this is that he's feeling, i'm left feeling alone and heart broken. I know that this is what he wanted and I can't sit around and wait for him to change his mind. I just don't know how to start over and move on without him. This feels like a divorce instead of a break up.