WWYD? I had a little boy who is 4 and birthday wasn't until 9/26. He was VERY immature ... required 90% of my time ... needed constant redirection ... had trouble with hitting ... could never sit still ... could never raise his hand .... etc, etc, etc. (in the principals office daily) We had a SAT meeting and decided to continue what we were doing before "testing". Then, out of nowhere ... the mom decided to pull him and try to enroll him in preschool and then try K next year. I thought it was the BEST decision that could have been made and was proud of the mom for making that decision. Now some people are worried (i.e. school psych. etc) that he might not be able to get into the "free" preschools b/c he is "school aged" ... SO ... he might end up spending another year at home and the homelife isn't very structured so maybe it won't do him any good to be at home rather than in school learning SOME structure. She is suggesting we bring him back for only 2 hours a day or something so at least he is getting something. I don't know what to say/do. He is SOOOOo exhausting ... but I want what is best for him. Ideally they would get him enrolled in a church preschool or something but they might not have the money to pay for it. WWYD?