I have a student who is having accidents almost daily. At least twice a week, it's a BM accident. My policy has always been that I let the kids change themselves if it is a wet accident. I help with zippers, buttons, etc, but that's it. For BM accidents, I call the parents to come deal with it. I do not have the supplies or facilities to take care of that kind of mess. This child's mother was very upset when the office called her to come help her son clean up today. Her response was, "I put diaper wipes and a pull up in his backpack." I don't think that a child who needs to wear a pull up is ready for public school PreK. If he is not potty trained, he should be in daycare where they have the facilities to work on that. What are your policies in public preK for toileting? By the way, this child will be 5 in January.