I have only had this aide for 3 weeks, but it feels like 3 months! I feel like I'm dealing with a student, not a 68 year old adult. Issues: She is born again, and tries to bring up religion - and even offered one student a prayer to meditate on. I told her prosleytizing is strictly forbidden and could get her fired. She got upset and told another teacher that I was "mean" and belittled her religion. Twice now, she has worn a sweater that has exposed her beer belly to the class. The kids were in fits of giggles and it was so distracting I told her to sit in the back of the room. I tell her to work one-on-one with a student and she's off topic talking about something else or telling jokes rather than instructing. She interrupts me during a lesson to ask if miss or mr can use the bathroom. If I ignore her, she leaves her assigned seat and taps my arm! She stays with me during prep time because she "has nowhere to go." She starts talking about her ex-husband, or how illegals are getting all the benefits, her bad knees, and whining that she's too old to be working. I tried to raise the issue of her classroom performance on Monday, but she had a meltdown, saying she's been abused her whole life - by her mother , her ex , and now apparently me. I found out today, she filed a complaint about me.