"Here you go, hon," when she was turning in a paper. This was said with a sarcastic, overly sweet tone after I had asked her to go to the deans' office for insubordination, blatant disrespect, and adamant refusal to work. My response was, "No. You don't get to call me that. Please leave." Ugh. I hate being called hon, honey, sweetie, dear, or any of those things when the person speaking is upset with me. I find it incredibly offensive.