Ellen, he crawls ont he floor before the lunchroom kids get there, but it drives him crazy if there is the tiniest and I mean tiniest spec of paper on the floor. I am glad you think it is OK for him to eat inthe classroom, some people think it is wrong, but I think it is wrong if he cannot finish his lunch and it cuts into his learning time if he has to take it back to class to finish. I don't think you are Smarmy at all

I do like the idea of maybe adding peers we are having another student eat with us tomorrow because he gets distracted too and doesn't eat, I have been told he does this once or twice a year then can go back and focus on food the next time he is in the cafeteria. Maybe we can make it a reward to go and eat lunch with Mrs. Shannon and _____. Since he finishes so quick in the class maybe we can go to the lunch room to sit and increase his time and noise tolerance.
We cleant he tables in the cafeteria as part of our job, but ARA runs the cafeteria and they do not like us doing that and heaven forbid we do the floors too, they have all these rules they follow so short of moving him someplace new I am not sure, he already sits at the end of the table facing the wall.
Thanks for the input ladies. I still may try the headphones and see how he does, I just hate to call attention to him like that, our group already gets looked at, we are in HIgh School.