The ones I yell at the most, the ones who are always losing their recess, the ones I have to call their parents and then put the kid on the phone with them crying, the ones who cry because they think I'm unfair, etc, are always the first ones to give me a hug in the morning. They're the ones that want to tell me all about what their cat did over the weekend, or how they have a cub scout trip coming up or to look at their cool new shoes. My well behaved kids are friendly, but they don't talk to me nearly as much. In fact, the best behaved girl in my classroom rarely speaks to me unless it's to ask if she can pass out papers, or to answer a question. It's so weird!