What would you do? My friend is getting married the 2nd week of school on a cruise. She's a former teacher and she has teacher friends so she know this time of year is critical but again she's a former teacher. She's getting married the 2nd week of school. I've looked but the ONLY way for me to attend is to be on the ship because the ceremony is on the private island only accessible through cruise passangers. Otherwise, I'd try to fly down and take a chartered boat and take 2-3 days off. It's a 7 day cruise. Oh how I wish she got married in August of November. We're not as close as we use to be, graduation and starting careers and moving across the country as lessened the bond but she's still one of my good friend and we've been friend since we were 14. I'm not the only one who cannot go but I feel bad not going. What would you do?