It's now been nearly 15 months since I originally sent in a petition for my husband's visa to the USA. Fifteen months. I could go on and on about all the injustices I have faced, there have been many. But I won't. Because I'm here to admit I have a visa problem. There's a visa forum that I check constantly throughout the day. I call the visa center at least twice a week and email my senator and congressman at least once a week. I hate not being able to control a part of my life. Such a huge part of my life. And I am obsessing over this to a point where I am starting to feel annoyed, frustrated and furious at life all the time. I want to call to get information because otherwise you have to wait 3 or 4 days to get an email. I want to know as soon as something happens so I can react as quickly as possible. But I think it's finally time for me to let go. I have become a visa monster. I wanted to wait to get a certain visa notice to quit my job, but I think I'll go ahead and put in my letter next week. If the visa takes an extra month, so be it. I need to be happy. And being this obsessive is making me quite unhappy. So please, send my visa application good visa thoughts. To finally get through this ridiculous process. And send me the will to STAY AWAY FROM THAT FORUM and relax and enjoy my time with my husband in this beautiful country which I will miss dearly once we leave.