I have a dilemma. We have a conference 12 hours from where I leave. We don't have funding so we have to pay some if the costs. My school is mostly flying, but that's an additional cost. My husbands school is driving. I would be stuck in a van with teachers I don't know. My husband is driving, so might get stuck in the back alone. I feel like I'm over thinking this and a ting silly. I'm try thinking of staying home. I truly feel uncomfortable around those other women. Two which had a crush on my husband. What do you guys think? Flying cost more but it's still an option. I just hate flying with out my husband.