Students Harassed Me

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  1. Ms.Holyoke

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    I was walking to my car after school yesterday when I passed a group of students. I teach some of them and a few I didn’t recognize. I heard one say, “it’s ms.xxx” I said hi and walked away. As I walked away, I heard a kid yelling “F*** you, Ms.XXX” and “b****.” It was crazy. I just walked away because I knew the kid or kids would run away if I tried to approach them. I am pretty sure the kid yelling was not one that I teach. I wrote it up as a document report and my VP emailed and asked if I remembered more names because she wants to follow up with the kids. Another teacher saw the same group and recognized another kid. I am still shocked that this happened, especially since I teach younger kids.
     
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  3. Joyful!

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    I'm sorry that happened to you.
     
  4. ChildWhisperer

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    Sorry that happened to you.
    That's normal at my school.
    Imagine a 1st grader punching you in the stomach and calling you B!+¢#, but all you do is sigh and call the office because it's not as bad the 4th grader bringing in her mom's used needle and stabbing you with it.
     
  5. otterpop

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    Oh good gravy! The things teachers have to deal with...
    I'm sorry that happened as well. It is fortunate your VP is willing to address it however he/she is able.
     
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  6. whizkid

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    Wow
     
  7. ChildWhisperer

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    Right?! Luckily, I was only punched and called B, it was another teacher that got stabbed by a student. She never came back / finished the year.
     
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    Wow! I can’t believe the stories I’m hearing. The worst I’ve had was a student saying “Fxxx off” under their breath or as they are being sent out the room. I’ve never had a kid cuss at me to my face and I teach 15 year olds.
    I’m so sorry that happened to you. It’s hard not to take it personally but don’t. You’ve done your job and that’s about all you can control.
     
  9. Upsadaisy

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    It is shocking to me that this seems to be the status quo these days. I'm so sorry you had to face this rude and hateful behavior and that it was directed at you. What a sad state we are in. Glad I am retired.
     
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  10. alp123

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    That's horrible. I'm so sorry. I'm just waiting for one of my 2nd graders to hit me......they've done just about everything else. :(
     
  11. ms.irene

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    Thankfully, this is not the norm everywhere -- so much depends on the school culture and community, and admin's commitment to upholding discipline. I have taught at schools where it is the norm, and I have experienced similar verbal abuse (never physical, though!). I have been at my school for five years now, and have never once felt as if I was being harassed by students. There are still such places out there, although it does seem they are becoming rarer...
     
  12. Upsadaisy

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    They are becoming rarer? I'm happy but surprised to hear that. I worked in such a protected, small environment that a student saying 'shut up' was extreme!
     
  13. MaleTeacher

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    I'm sorry you had to go through this. I teach second graders at a Prek-8 school, and these situations are normal here. For some reason, the older students think of themselves as gangsters and try to act like it (swearing, committing vandalism, threatening violence). I sometimes look at my kids and think about what they will be like ten years into the future. I have learned to just ignore it. This "change" seems to start in fourth grade and spirals out of control in the higher grades. Fortunately, I teach second grade so I am still able to control them.
     
  14. whizkid

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    Apr 14, 2019 at 1:26 PM

    Just when you think only your district is screwed up.....
     
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    Apr 14, 2019 at 6:52 PM

    I'm going to really think about leaving the district.
     

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