Sry so long....Please bear with it!! Thanks! So my sisters bf just asked her marry him and she said yes. He did it in front of me and my mom at the beach! Well I get the honor and stressful task of being her maid of honor. I know this is her day , but I am stressing. She is not sure a date yet but it will def. be a yr from now. Either march,april or may of 2011. She has not summited dates yet to our church. They request 3 dates to be brought up at staff meeting to make sure nothing else is happening at the church that day. Well I have really no idea where to start. My sister knew this was comming just not when he would pop the question. She had already went and looked at rings with him and she went with my mom to look at dresses and she bought one. I was upset because I have always dreamed on going with her to get the dress. (she is 3hrs away from me going to school and working so its hard). Well I have to get over the fact that I won't see her try on dresses etc. I even picked out my dress...She told me the website and which page my dress was on and I went and found a diff dress I feel in love with and I asked her bout it and she said yes to it!! Anyway to make a long story short..I need help and ideas from anyone who has ever been a maid of honor(perferably for your sister) to give me ideas, tips, websites, etc. Tell me what I need to help with or plan...I heard that the MOD packs the bag for the brides honeymoon and when I said that to her she was like no lol. So we are not going to be that traditional. LOL!