Yes elizak- either get a new number or have his rejected. He is still trying to manipulate you. You are showing him you can live quite fine without him and it seems to be bugging him! He is with a girl who has bad character, from what you have said. If you were my daughter, I would sure want you to cut it off totally, no phone conversations period. My sister had a similar situation!! It was many years ago, but so much like yours it is really weird. The guy showed up at her apartment with the new girlfriend one day, they all got into a big fight and the rough girlfriend attacked my sister with brass knuckles!!! sent her to the hospital! Get away completely. He is hanging with bad news and you deserve to have peace. I am so thrilled you are starting to get angry!!!!!! That is a big key to staying strong and cutting it completely and moooooving on. Life is out there and truly, thank God every day you got out of this while there was still time! What a complete and total jerk! Friends with his new girlfriend?? Hasn't he ever heard "there is no wrath like that of a woman scorned?" They are both lucky YOU didn't go after THEM with the brass knuckles. Change that ph. # girl.