Long story short: I would like to express interest, to our AD, in coaching football next season if the right position for me opens up. However, I wonder if it would be unfair to my family (wife and toddler with one potentially on the way) to take on such a time commitment. No, I would not make any commitments without talking to her first. I am not sure I have an actual question to ask other than if anyone has thoughts or experience with a similar dilemma. It never hurts to get honest feedback from people of varying mindsets.